Passing
the experience of emotional separation or divorce is always painful and
disturbing. You need every ounce of sympathy and
understanding, but here are 05 things you should not do after
separation.
It may seem different from what people sometimes recommend. Your dear friend will try to improve your feeling.
This is her role, but she may not give you the best advice, because she will be sympathetic with you and even help you make the wrong decisions too. If you want real advice, take her from a man and not a woman, Because the reference of the man will be his mind and not his heart and this is what should be based on your decisions at this stage.
Don't call your husband or your former partner !!
understanding, but here are 05 things you should not do after
separation.
Don't listen to your best friend's advice!
It may seem different from what people sometimes recommend. Your dear friend will try to improve your feeling.
This is her role, but she may not give you the best advice, because she will be sympathetic with you and even help you make the wrong decisions too. If you want real advice, take her from a man and not a woman, Because the reference of the man will be his mind and not his heart and this is what should be based on your decisions at this stage.
Don't call your husband or your former partner !!
If
you want to go back to life and your separation is crucial or for
reasons that can not be reversed, such as domestic violence or treason,
you must give up the idea of returning to it completely.
Don't talk to anyone from the past!
Don't talk to anyone from the past!
Going
back to someone in the past to consult your current relationship is not
the solution. It is likely that the person who broke up with you in the
past will not be your best friend to talk about your current
separation. The best way to finish the stage is to go ahead.
Don't open your phone or email from 10 pm - 7 am!
Don't open your phone or email from 10 pm - 7 am!
The
worst of your times after the separation phase is after 10 o'clock when
you feel you have become single but resort to phone or e-mail to
express your unity. It will not make you feel comfortable, it will make
you feel ashamed and guilty in the morning. Do not meet people online at
night and do not try to contact your partner, but feel lonely by
reading a good book and just.
Don't hear sad songs!
Don't hear sad songs!
The
reason is obvious, you torment yourself and repeat your tragedy several
times and the songs will not help you fix your life or move forward but
put you in a spiral of sadness and depression.
